Saturday, July 11, 2009

Part - 19.g. - Education



MHS Class of '55



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19.g. EDUCATION

I began college at Livingston State Teachers College (now University of West Alabama) in the fall of 1955. I completed two quarters of study there and had to drop out amid the third quarter due to two health related things. One was the nervous breakdown that was followed by appendicitis.

The next fall, I transferred to Howard College (now Samford University) in Birmingham.

Upon completion of only one semester at Howard, I had fallen madly in love with a (as her cousin, Bill Sullivan, my LSTC roommate said) "pleasantly plump" gal from Eight Mile, AL by the name of Mable JoAnne Hendrix (JoAnne). So, much to the chagrin of Mother and Daddy, I dropped out of school and got a job in the Lab at International Paper Co. (IP), in Mobile.

After Deb was born, I continued to have the seizures. IP would not allow me back to work. I had found the problem and was adjusting to handling the cure.


The State of Alabama had a program that would pay tuition for college education to people with problems such as I had. So, I enrolled in William Carey College, in Hattiesburg, MS to continue studying church music.

JoAnne left Rhodes in Mobile and got a job at the Auto Lec Store (similar to Western Auto) in Hattiesburg making $180.00 per month. We had to hire a maid to keep the kids. This cost us $15.00 per week. So, needless to say, we weren't overly "flush" with money.

A rare treat, about once every two or three weeks, we would "splurge" and go to Bush's Cafe for a steak sandwich @ thirty five cents each, or to Frost Top Root beer drive-in for a couple of Chili, Cheese Dogs @ twenty cents each. Our main stay was powdered milk, oatmeal and spaghetti. It was a long time after that before I "redeveloped" a taste for spaghetti or oatmeal.

We lived in an apartment at the back of on old house that had two other apartments up front. We had one bedroom, bath and a long room across the back that served as living room, dining room and kitchen. It really was a "filth hole" that was overrun with roaches, water bugs and mice. We would spray for bugs and they'd make the rounds to the other apartments, then back.

The mice had gotten so bad that we couldn't catch them all with traps. So, I asked the maid if she had a cat. She said she didn't, but her neighbor had one that would catch mice. I asked her to arrange for me to borrow the cat the next night.

When I took the maid home the next day, I picked up the cat. When we started to bed, I turned her loose in the big room. The cat was so thin; you could "almost read a newspaper through her!"

When I went in the next morning, it looked like someone had pumped the cat up like a balloon. She was FULL of mice. When I
took her home, her owner looked at her and said, " Lawdy murcy! She musta et a lotsa mices!" We didn't have much mouse trouble after that.

During the school year, I discovered that working in the Very high noise level areas in the paper mill had caused me to lose the keen hearing ability to hear musical tones necessary to be a professional musician. So, I dropped out of school at the end of that year, so didn’t finish college.

Many years later, I enrolled in a two year Experiential Credits degree problem through Tusculum College in East Tennessee. After completing the first semester of that, I was transferred to Maine by Rust and finally gave up on the degree situation.

So, as I call it, “I graduated from UHK (University of Hard Knocks)” and gained what finally made for a pretty well paying career in the Construction Industry.








Friday, July 10, 2009

Part - 19.f. - School

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19f. SCHOOL

Claire and Sylvia were "home schooled," that is, they knew about all there was to learn in first grade, i.e., reading, writing, arithmetic, etc., before starting school. So, they both started to school in the second grade. I guess it didn't hurt them too much, as they were both Valedictorian of their class.

Daddy would ask Joe what his expectations were of becoming valedictorian, he would say, "Claire was, Sylvia was, I won't be and Jim might be." Of course, neither of us did as we had more to concentrate on, like baseball, football, basketball, shooting goals in the back yard, playing croquet, girls, etc. All the "important" things to use your brains on!

Although Sylvia, nor I, got a piece of sheepskin saying we'd been to college for four years, we fought it through our "Schools of Hard Knocks!" I guess we came out pretty well. The "professors" and "curriculum" of SHK can really be cruel at times, but you never lose what you do learn there!







Thursday, July 9, 2009

Part - 19.e. - Health


RAISIN'


19e. HEALTH


I have had reasonably good health over the years in spite of smoking for 34 years, from ages 14 to 49.

While in school at Livingston, I had a nervous breakdown due to smoking, "going too much," and lack of sleep. It was triggered by a fall when I landed on my tailbone. Later that year, I had appendicitis, which caused me to lose a quarter in school.

Soon after we married, I developed "black outs" that was diagnosed as nerve problems due to worry. I've had no problems with that in about 50 years.

Over the past 24 years, I have had Angina, which I control with medication, Tarsal Tunnel syndrome in my right foot, Bursitis, and am having some trouble with Arthritis, particularly in my hands. I'm on medication for the Tarsal Tunnel and Arthritis, Neuropathy, B.O.O.P, elevated cholesterol, and a few other maladies.

I still "get about" pretty well, as I won't give in to these things any more than I have to.

Not too long after I went to work there, I developed a situation where I would "Black out." Sometimes, I would just go into a deep sleep. Other times, I'd roll around, bumping my head, etc. I would never remember what happened, but I would always know that I'd had one, afterwards.

I went through all types of tests with no answers. One test was to inject a needle into my spine, pump air into my brain to see if there were any growths there. (Daddy said that they broke two pumps trying to pump into a vacuum!) I had a seizure at IP one night at work, so IP wouldn't allow me to return to work.

I got an appointment to go to Ochner Clinic Hospital in New Orleans. I was there only two days and was diagnosed as having nerve problems that caused the seizures. They referred me to doctors in Mobile for psychoanalysis. It was determined that I would worry over even small things to a point that I would black out. I learned to develop a more carefree attitude. I cared what was happening, but wouldn't allow myself to worry and fret over things. I soon found out that I could solve more problems without worrying over them than when I did.

Soon after Debbie and Tommie’s wedding I developed Angina and have been on medication for that since 1985.

I have had a couple of bouts with various things like, shortness of breath, irregular heartbeat, some arthritis, parathyroid problems that cause elevated calcium and too little Vitamin D in my system. Then, the latest things are a kidney stone in my left kidney and B.O.O.P., a lung and breathing problem that I am on medication for at the current time.






Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Part - 19.d.- Church

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19.d. CHURCH


Granddaddy and Mother Minnie were among the charter members of Millry Baptist Church. Daddy and Mrs. Louise Hill were the first additions to the church. They were both away at school on the Sunday that the church was started, so they joined the next Sunday.

Daddy and Mother were always very active in the church. Daddy served as a Deacon for over fifty years and was always ready to do engineering type chores, like drawing up plans for remodeling the old building, and reworking the drawings for the new building to make it more feasible and to fit the needs of that particular church.

He served as Head Usher for a number of years, greeting everyone as they came in by giving them the bulletin. He made sure that no one decided to sit in his special place: On the aisle end of the fifth pew from the front on the right side of the building.

Mother played piano, taught Sunday School, taught Bible School and her "thing" was to sing in the Choir. She sang in the choir until she was eighty-six. She and Claire sang a special when she was eighty-eight.

As a memorial to Mother, a fund was started and soon completed to buy new Choir robes. As a memorial to Daddy, a fund was raised to buy a new organ and piano for the church. As a memorial to Claire, a fund was raised to buy and install a stained glass window in the baptistery.


Soon after we moved to Cottage Hill, we started going to Cottage Hill Baptist Church, but didn't move our letter from Conway for quite a while. It just so happened that we joined the same day our new pastor, Don Watterson and his family did, in 1964.

Don was pretty good at remembering names of people. Well, he never forgot to call me by the name he learned mine was....Bill!

I was ordained a Deacon on October 23, 1977 at CHBC. Andy was licensed to preach by CHBC, then ordained into the ministry on November 15, 1980. Deb devoted her life to Full-time service at CHBC, and was later married there. So, CHBC has been a Large part of our family's life.

We stayed at CHBC until we moved to Oak Ridge, in 1979. So, it really is the kids "Home Church."

When we moved back to Mobile, from Oak Ridge, in 1992, we moved our letters back to CHBC. We had only two Pastors and two interim Pastors during the years at CHBC: Pastors Don Watterson and Fred Wolfe and Interims Dr. Dobbs, professor at Mobile College and Dr. Roy Fish, professor at Southwest Baptist Theological Seminary.

Dr. Dobbs really preached interesting sermons....the first time through. Being a teacher, he went over it again! During the second round, many people were asleep.

Dr. Fish filled the six-month gap when Fred Wolfe went to Lubbock, TX, then returned. He recently returned after Fred went into full-time ministry service to Pastors.

I served as Chairman of the Security Committee for several years. During that time I was responsible for having someone in the parking lots at each nighttime service and for parking, especially for special services such as Easter.

We only had one small paved lot at the time, so it was quite a chore getting folks to park in some sort of alignment to keep from blocking someone in and to utilize all the space we had to park as many cars as possible.

It was also hard to get volunteers to fill all the time slots needed for the patrol, so I spent most evening services in the lots. The Deacons finally added to the Deacons-of-the-Week duties to assist in patrolling the lot.

After we left for Oak Ridge, they split the duties of the security committee and organized a parking committee. Things are pretty well organized now, with all the paved and marked lots, and the parking committeemen are equipped with two-way radios to advise others where spaces are available.

There would be members of the security committee assigned to a week each month to be responsible for getting volunteers to assist him. The Second Sunday crew was Lucky Lutz, G H Nichols, Howard Rayburn and I. We started out going to one of our homes after Church for refreshments. That didn't work out too well, as all of us had to be at work very early on Mondays. So, we changed to having a Dinner at one of our homes each Saturday night before the second Sunday. We really enjoyed this. The ladies would decide on the menu and what each was to bring, so we always had lots of GOOOOOD food! Besides, we really enjoyed sharing our friendship.

Sadly, Howard Rayburn died last year of esophageal and liver cancer, only a short time after being diagnosed with the disease.

At Central Baptist in Oak Ridge, I served as Deacon for several years. I did quite a bit of work, first running in-house and radio broadcast sound, then working with the TV Ministry in the new building.

On the second of January, 1991, I was released from work by Rust as a large project I was to go to was cut back. I didn't find work again until September 30, 1991, when I went to work with Farnell and Associates at Courtaulds Fibers TENCEL SL1 plant.

While I was off work, I assisted in building a "Living Flag" prop for patriotic services on July fourth. I led a work crew for two weeks during the daytime hours, and then another crew would work in the evenings. When the program was performed for the second time, I had a crew of eight men, and we completely piece marked, disassembled and stored the "Flag" for future use and had the Sanctuary ready for services in one, eight hour day.

After the Flag work, I worked with Mr. Eddie Carrol, a retiree from the X-10 plant to install a complete new television system, including new control room, new cameras and I began Directing TV services for broadcast, Live on the local cable channel and for the ACTS TV network nationwide. That was really an enjoyable and a valuable learning experience that I have used in making Safety training videos for work.







Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Part - 19.c. Backyard Playground


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19.c. BACKYARD PLAYGROUND

Our back yard was the "neighborhood playground." The lot was sixty-six feet wide at the street, two hundred feet deep and four hundred twenty feet across the back.

There was plenty of room for football, basketball, baseball and badminton. Neither we, nor any of the neighbors had to wonder where our kids were playing.

I had put my old basketball goal up about eight feet high for Andy when he was small. I nailed a piece of plywood to a tree to mount it on.

After he had gotten bigger, I tried to take it down to move it to the ten-foot regular height. I couldn't pull the nails out of the oak tree that it was nailed to. So, I quit trying, as I didn't want to tear up the plywood.

About a month later, Hurricane Camille came through and did considerable damage in Mobile, but devastated the Mississippi Gulf coast.

We had packed up and, along with Sonny, Carolyn and Boys, went to Millry. A "J" berry tree blew down up there. After cleaning up the tree, we went back home to see what kind of damage we had there.

When we drove up, there was NO damage. Later, we noticed the basketball goal had blown down..... with plywood attached, .....and the nails pulled out of the oak tree!

I built a new four-foot by six foot backboard, put it on four by four posts and relocated the goal to another place.






Monday, July 6, 2009

Part - 19.b.3 - More Special Days & "I See"













RAISIN'


19b.3. MORE SPECIAL DAYS

Other special days were things that really mean a lot to me. One was the day when I was eight years old and I was saved at Millry Baptist Church. Another was the day in the mid-seventies that I was ordained a Deacon at Cottage Hill Baptist Church. I served there, at Central Baptist Church in Oak Ridge, TN and am now serving at Millry Baptist.

I remember talking with JoAnne about the possibility that Martin Builders would soon go out of business and how nice it would be to get a job up in the East Tennessee or in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley in Virginia area. Then when I got the call to go to Oak Ridge for an interview with Rust Engineering, and got the job up there that allowed me to utilize the experience that I’d received from “The School of Hard Knocks!”

There are so many memories from the nearly 13 years spent in the East Tennessee area.

I remember so fondly of the birth of each one of our five grandchildren and our first great-granddaughter.

It is really amazing to set your mind back in time over almost 72 years to remember so many thousands of Special Memories and Special Times over those years. As I think back over those years, there is no way that I could bring up all of them, nor a way to express them sitting at my computer. The Lord has been so gracious to me and my family that I cannot express my thanks to Him and to all my family and many, many friends.

As I get older, each day becomes more special to me. I only have to look out a window from the old house to see things that I did while growing up and what special things that growing up on a farm taught me to make it through living in this country, the USA.

Back on Easter Sunday, in March 2007 I was sitting at my computer. It was a cloudy day, so I had the drapes and blinds open in the window at my side. I looked outside for a few moments and started thinking about what I Saw back over the years growing up here. I will insert what I wrote on that day below:

I See Now and I Would See Then

As I sit here on a part misty/part sunny Easter Sunday afternoon, I gaze out the window to see all the evidence that Spring has finally taken over the chills of Winter. I see the pear trees, wisteria, bridal wreath and other shrubs blooming, the grass turning green, the wild cane sprouting up with new white sprouts. I see Lonesome Pine with it’s yellow pollen blowing with the wind. I see the relocated, soon to be replaced tractor shed. I see a white storage building filled with quite a bit of DTAB’s stuff. I see the back of the garage carport that will soon be my workshop, the scuppernong arbor and the barn. I see the old shop with all the old plows, cotton scales, etc. nailed on the wall and the inside filled with tools, some antique, some modern and up to date. Most of all, its filled with memories! I think of all the old times here and what I would see from this vantage point when I was a boy.

I would have seen a croquet court laid out over the level, grassless yard, a big water tank that had gravity flowing water from the old spring across the road, water would be dripping off the platform that would freeze into huge icicles during winter. I would see the three huge hedge balls at three corners of the tank platform. I would see me using a hoe as a road grader and grading roads all around the croquet court complete with graded ditches and bridges. Then, to be sure the ditches would take the water off the roads, I’d run water thru them and watch it run all the way over by the smoke house. I’d see Joe and me shooting marbles in the back or side yard. I would see the horse shoe court past the water tank and the fox hound and chicken yard fences beyond that. Also, I’d see the tractor shed and the old blacksmith shop and the old barn with the mule wagon under the shed just behind Pinto’s old stall. I would see the horse and cow lots and the cane mill out past the cow lot where Daddy would make the most delicious cane syrup each fall and we would tumble off the cane chew pile and we would drink the fresh cane juice on a cold day. I would see the little Chinaberry tree to the left of the basketball goal at the south end of the croquet court. I see myself spending enormous amounts of time playing croquet and shooting basketball goals. I’d see the old smoke house with all the wonderful smoked meats and large containers of cracklins and pure leaf lard. I’d see the old meat cutting table at the south side of the smoke house where all the hogs were cut up and placed by the window to be salted down to start curing before it was hung and smoked. I’d see the big iron pot with a fire built around it filled with fatback and sowbelly being cooked down to get the lard and become the cracklins. I’d see Mother or Lucy grab hold of a fryer chicken by the neck, give it a couple of flips round and round ‘til the head came off and it would hop around the yard until all reflexes were gone. I would see Marie Antoinette, Claire’s leghorn hen strutting around the back yard. I’d see the old dinner bell beside the back door steps that I’d ring when Lucy said, “Sonny, tell ‘em dinner’s ready.” I’d see Joe and me pitching rubber balls against the old concrete back steps, then fielding the return. I’d see the old log potato house by the north end of the croquet court where we’d store Irish potatoes in the summer and sweet potatoes in the fall. I’d see a wash tub on the back porch with newspapers and Daddy’s old raincoat over a prized block of ice, then see different ones turning the old ice cream freezer. I’d see me getting sick from eating too much salty ice and throwing up, but that only made for more capacity for the good half melted, home made ice cream! I’d see Ring, Jimmy, Tip, Daisy Mae, Jenny, Judy, Bing, Harry, and all the other dogs and cats all around the back yards. I’d see the pigeon house with its flyway out to the left, behind the smoke house. I’d see the two-hole outhouse with the Sears Roebuck, Montgomery Ward and Spiegel catalogs used for “other than selecting things to order stuff from!!” I’d see the old chicken house and all the pear trees, the apple tree and the scuppernong arbor to the north and west of the chicken house. I’d see the pole where hogs were hung to dress and the platform with the sloped barrel where the slain hogs would be dipped in hot water to loosen the hair from their hides. I’d see the clothes lines loaded with clothes Lucy had washed at the old spring and brought down and hanged to dry. I’d see the hog pens out behind the old blacksmith shop. I’d see Lucy churning on the back porch with one of us sitting in her lap looking at the “wish book” (Sears Catalog), or her telling us a story or singing us a song. I’d see Dennis and Tommy splitting wood between the water tank and the two big oaks after crops had been “layed by.” I’d see the stove wood neatly stacked under the woodshed alongside the garage. (The house wood would be stacked level alongside the old “Office.”) I would see me loading my wagon with at least 50 sticks of stove wood just to haul it from the wood shed to the back steps. I would see Mama Wright coming out the back door and using Joe’s pied stick horse to kill a ground rattler lying by the steps. I’d see the J-berry trees with ripe berries all over the ground and fresh, purple chicken manure all over the yards and steps that when stepped in with bare feet would ooze up between my toes. I’d see Jack Ezell and I running across that level yard and me tripping and falling on the back step and cutting my left eye brow.

It really is amazing to see again in your mind of things long ago as they compare with the now!
19b.3. MORE SPECIAL DAYS

Other special days were things that really mean a lot to me. One was the day when I was eight years old and I was saved at Millry Baptist Church. Another was the day in the mid-seventies that I was ordained a Deacon at Cottage Hill Baptist Church. I served there, at Central Baptist Church in Oak Ridge, TN and am now serving at Millry Baptist.

I remember talking with JoAnne about the possibility that Martin Builders would soon go out of business and how nice it would be to get a job up in the East Tennessee or in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley in Virginia area. Then when I got the call to go to Oak Ridge for an interview with Rust Engineering, and got the job up there that allowed me to utilize the experience that I’d received from “The School of Hard Knocks!”

There are so many memories from the nearly 13 years spent in the East Tennessee area.

I remember so fondly of the birth of each one of our five grandchildren and our first great-granddaughter.

It is really amazing to set your mind back in time over almost 72 years to remember so many thousands of Special Memories and Special Times over those years. As I think back over those years, there is no way that I could bring up all of them, nor a way to express them sitting at my computer. The Lord has been so gracious to me and my family that I cannot express my thanks to Him and to all my family and many, many friends.

As I get older, each day becomes more special to me. I only have to look out a window from the old house to see things that I did while growing up and what special things that growing up on a farm taught me to make it through living in this country, the USA.

Back on Easter Sunday, in March 2007 I was sitting at my computer. It was a cloudy day, so I had the drapes and blinds open in the window at my side. I looked outside for a few moments and started thinking about what I Saw back over the years growing up here. I will insert what I wrote on that day below:

I See Now and I Would See Then

As I sit here on a part misty/part sunny Easter Sunday afternoon, I gaze out the window to see all the evidence that Spring has finally taken over the chills of Winter. I see the pear trees, wisteria, bridal wreath and other shrubs blooming, the grass turning green, the wild cane sprouting up with new white sprouts. I see Lonesome Pine with it’s yellow pollen blowing with the wind. I see the relocated, soon to be replaced tractor shed. I see a white storage building filled with quite a bit of DTAB’s stuff. I see the back of the garage carport that will soon be my workshop, the scuppernong arbor and the barn. I see the old shop with all the old plows, cotton scales, etc. nailed on the wall and the inside filled with tools, some antique, some modern and up to date. Most of all, its filled with memories! I think of all the old times here and what I would see from this vantage point when I was a boy.

I would have seen a croquet court laid out over the level, grassless yard, a big water tank that had gravity flowing water from the old spring across the road, water would be dripping off the platform that would freeze into huge icicles during winter. I would see the three huge hedge balls at three corners of the tank platform. I would see me using a hoe as a road grader and grading roads all around the croquet court complete with graded ditches and bridges. Then, to be sure the ditches would take the water off the roads, I’d run water thru them and watch it run all the way over by the smoke house. I’d see Joe and me shooting marbles in the back or side yard. I would see the horse shoe court past the water tank and the fox hound and chicken yard fences beyond that. Also, I’d see the tractor shed and the old blacksmith shop and the old barn with the mule wagon under the shed just behind Pinto’s old stall. I would see the horse and cow lots and the cane mill out past the cow lot where Daddy would make the most delicious cane syrup each fall and we would tumble off the cane chew pile and we would drink the fresh cane juice on a cold day. I would see the little Chinaberry tree to the left of the basketball goal at the south end of the croquet court. I see myself spending enormous amounts of time playing croquet and shooting basketball goals. I’d see the old smoke house with all the wonderful smoked meats and large containers of cracklins and pure leaf lard. I’d see the old meat cutting table at the south side of the smoke house where all the hogs were cut up and placed by the window to be salted down to start curing before it was hung and smoked. I’d see the big iron pot with a fire built around it filled with fatback and sowbelly being cooked down to get the lard and become the cracklins. I’d see Mother or Lucy grab hold of a fryer chicken by the neck, give it a couple of flips round and round ‘til the head came off and it would hop around the yard until all reflexes were gone. I would see Marie Antoinette, Claire’s leghorn hen strutting around the back yard. I’d see the old dinner bell beside the back door steps that I’d ring when Lucy said, “Sonny, tell ‘em dinner’s ready.” I’d see Joe and me pitching rubber balls against the old concrete back steps, then fielding the return. I’d see the old log potato house by the north end of the croquet court where we’d store Irish potatoes in the summer and sweet potatoes in the fall. I’d see a wash tub on the back porch with newspapers and Daddy’s old raincoat over a prized block of ice, then see different ones turning the old ice cream freezer. I’d see me getting sick from eating too much salty ice and throwing up, but that only made for more capacity for the good half melted, home made ice cream! I’d see Ring, Jimmy, Tip, Daisy Mae, Jenny, Judy, Bing, Harry, and all the other dogs and cats all around the back yards. I’d see the pigeon house with its flyway out to the left, behind the smoke house. I’d see the two-hole outhouse with the Sears Roebuck, Montgomery Ward and Spiegel catalogs used for “other than selecting things to order stuff from!!” I’d see the old chicken house and all the pear trees, the apple tree and the scuppernong arbor to the north and west of the chicken house. I’d see the pole where hogs were hung to dress and the platform with the sloped barrel where the slain hogs would be dipped in hot water to loosen the hair from their hides. I’d see the clothes lines loaded with clothes Lucy had washed at the old spring and brought down and hanged to dry. I’d see the hog pens out behind the old blacksmith shop. I’d see Lucy churning on the back porch with one of us sitting in her lap looking at the “wish book” (Sears Catalog), or her telling us a story or singing us a song. I’d see Dennis and Tommy splitting wood between the water tank and the two big oaks after crops had been “layed by.” I’d see the stove wood neatly stacked under the woodshed alongside the garage. (The house wood would be stacked level alongside the old “Office.”) I would see me loading my wagon with at least 50 sticks of stove wood just to haul it from the wood shed to the back steps. I would see Mama Wright coming out the back door and using Joe’s pied stick horse to kill a ground rattler lying by the steps. I’d see the J-berry trees with ripe berries all over the ground and fresh, purple chicken manure all over the yards and steps that when stepped in with bare feet would ooze up between my toes. I’d see Jack Ezell and I running across that level yard and me tripping and falling on the back step and cutting my left eye brow.

It really is amazing to see again in your mind of things long ago as they compare with the now!



Sunday, July 5, 2009

Part - 19b.2. - More Special Days



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19b.2. MORE SPECIAL DAYS


Two more super special days were November 4, 1958 and November 25, 1959, when Andy and Debbie were born.

On Monday morning November 3, 1958, about 7:30 am, JoAnne said it was time to get to the hospital. We arrived at Mobile Infirmary about 8:00 am. One person took her and headed for the labor room, another sent me to Admitting.

After Admitting, I was told to go to the second floor waiting room and WAIT! After about hour or so of knowing nothing, I asked a nurse if she could get any word from back there, somewhere in the dungeon of I don’t know what. She checked and told me that it was gonna be a loooong wait. She also told me that if I went to the pay phone there in the hall, call the hospital number and ask for the labor room, I could keep check on progress.

After feeding a couple of nickels in the pay phone, and being told that it may be sometime Tuesday before the baby came, I made an agreement with the labor room nurses that I would go home and call them every hour, on the hour, until they told me to come back. So, that’s what I did.

When I called at 4:00 PM Tuesday, November 4, 1958, I was told to come back down, it wouldn’t be long.

At about 5:15 PM, Dr. B.B. Kimbrough came out and said, “You’ve got the biggest footed boy I’ve ever seen! He’s gonna break ya buying shoes for him. Him and his Mama are both fine.”

James Andrew Wood, Jr. was born at 5:02 PM, weighed 9 pounds 7 ounces, and was 21 inches long. And he had a FINE set of lungs.

It wasn’t very long before I got to see my new son,.... through a glass window in the nursery. Not like now-a-day almost being able to catch ‘em coming out! That just wasn’t done back then. I did get to glimpse him in a buggy of eight babies when the nurses cleared the halls and took them to their mother’s room to be fed. I knew him right off as the loudest of the bunch!

JoAnne had some complications getting her kidneys to act. Finally, when Andy was nine days old, they let them go home. And...Finally, I got to hold my son. JoAnne was still catherized and her kidneys didn’t start functioning until he was fifteen days old.

I just thought that Andy was about the most special thing there ever was! He was very expensive. We didn’t have any medical insurance, so I had to pay the doctor $150.00 and the hospital $350.00. It took almost until the time Debbie was born to pay for him.


In fact, there was very little that we did know about “Burthin’ Babies!” We barely knew what caused them, much less near what is common knowledge and freely discussed in “open” conversation now a day.

After complications with the birth of Andy, JoAnne decided to go to Dr. Hubbard in Chatom, and to go to Washington County Hospital when time came for Deb to be born.

JoAnne stayed in Millry for about a month before the due date, so she’d be near the Doctor and Hospital. Mother had Florence Turner, Lucy’s sister, in most days to help her with Andy. Also, she stayed after the baby was born to help out.

While at Millry, Sylvia made sure that she had plenty of Healing Springs (Mound Spring) water to drink to fend off the kidney problems.

JoAnne had kinda gotten homesick, so we went to Eight Mile on a Monday. We had started back Tuesday night and she said we’d better get Andy to Millry and get back to Chatom, soon.

I tried to drive as fast as I could, but was afraid to go too fast as we saw no less than seventeen different deer along the way. Some were even in folks’ yards in Chatom.

We left Andy with Mother and got back to the hospital about 11:00 PM on November 24, 1959. After examining her, the Doctor said it would be a pretty good while yet. So, I made a quick trip to Millry to advise Mother. (She had no phone then.) Also, called JoAnne’s mother, Lou.

Unlike Mobile Infirmary, I was allowed to stay with JoAnne in the Labor Room. In fact, they let James Robert Whigham, husband of the Head Nurse, Dorothy, come back to see us about mid-day Wednesday.

At about 11:15 Wednesday night, they came back and told me to go to the waiting room, as it wouldn’t be long now.

At 11:45 PM, November 25, 1959, Deborah Kaye Wood entered this world, not with a shout and scream, but with a small, dainty “whimper!” She weighed in at 9 pounds 8 ounces and was 21 inches long.

I was only able to see her through the nursery window that night. She was a beauty from the start. Then, the next day, I was allowed to be in the room when they brought her in to be fed, and I got to hold her then.


After a couple of weeks with Florence’s help, in Millry, we got to get back to Eight Mile where we became the family of JAW-3-Plus 1!

Other special days include my being saved when I was eight-years-old, both the kids accomplishments, such as scouting, band, church events, when they were saved, each of their weddings, and of course, the birth of each of our five grandchildren.